Going through life doing the same things over and over and not learning anything doesnt  serve your best intrest. Certain things you learned when you are young still apply today. You knew when you turned 18 you had to get a job and find a way to support yourself. Live on your own, feed yourself pay bills. Some of us waited till after college to try this but you know what Im saying.
  Doing simple day to day things everyone needs to survive. Eat and get money so you can keep that place you call home and eat again later. Beyond that everything is kind of optional. You can do pretty much anything else as long as you keep these first few things in check. Most people can accomplish this on their own without a problem and its usually just second nature if you live in a developed country.
   I might be assuming to much here for some but this is whats been rolling around in my mind. If you spend your life dependent on others to get the money and the food then arent you almost slacking at being a human. Without knowing how to provide your self the basic needs of being a human what are you? If you stumble about day by day asking others what to do next, depending on a specific person to give you your happiness, food or housing then what happens if its all gone.
 You should be able to just start from a blank slate and go. Its self awareness, self suffiency, basic human instict. Things you just have to understand about being on this earth. Shit aint free and your life is about you and Google is your best  friend. If you want to live in a tent out in the woods then its up to you to make it happen. If you want a mansion in the hills then go get it. 
  Assuming you had everything exactly as you thought you wanted. Then  one day the people you knew all disappeared, your job and life as you knew it were gone. Standing on a street corner with $500 in your pocket and no obligations. Some might party, some might run but most of us would try to make a plan. A way to parlay $500 into a home, food and more money.
 Would it be acceptable if you threw the money on the ground, rolled in the dirt and screamed and had a fit? This would certainly work okay if you wanted to to go live in a cardboard box behind the local appliance store. Since you would be dirty and broke. Not the best plan of action.
  If you want the best for yourself then its not acceptable in any terms if when you finish this fit covered in dirt and left your cash strewn about and walked straight to the Mansion sales company asking for the keys to your house and a job in the corner office.  Maybe you thought that would work the first time but if you actually tried it once would you go to another mansion sales company while broke, covered in dirt and ask the same thing? Hopefully you all thought pssh no way, its obvious thats not gonna work. Probably a better idea to clean up and buy some nice clothes then go to that sales company. Certainly its still not going to work though right but you are giving your self a better shot at it by using basic thought.
 Why is it that so many people in our society do not learn anything. They spend years and years of their lives incapable of making their own life work. Doing relatively the exact same thing over and over wondering why it isnt working out. Running in circles Claiming torment, bad luck and everyone but themselves. Stop, look at the things that are problems for you, there is most definitely an obviously answer to why things are continuous problems. If you are broke, find more money. If everyone hates you, love them. If everyone ignores you, talk to them. If nobody helps you, help yourself. Believe me your solutions are there and they are this simple. Try something, learn from it and move on to the next option. You can discover the path that works, you mind will lead you.
  I have went through many different situations where Ive done the same thing over and over. Once I stood outside of the situation I was able to deduce the next step or the next focus. Why cant every one just find their way, it seems so easy most of the time. Maybe Im just blessed with the ability to survive the simple stuff. My personal struggle is to stop using happiness as an excuse for  loneliness both of which are heavily present in my life every day. Good luck in your journey. Analyze, learn and develop.  Realize we are all just energy, vibrate it at the right frequency and everything will align.